Oh I agree, reasonable discussion on things that frustate is very valuable. I am guilty of contributing many comments on my annoyances regarding things like dragonriding because of physical issues; probably went a bit overboard on it but it was one of those ‘ticked me off’ things at the time. I just get a bit tired of repeated rants that don’t achieve much beyond stirring up volatility.
I also agree that the debuff/group kick system is frequently frustrating. I’ve had it done to me and I like to think I’m not a terrible player but as the saying goes, with another word used…stuff happens. Ultimately for me it’s not a huge issue as I have an army of alts and if one is hit with the deserter, I just go do something else or play another character.
I still think the best way to contribute for change is to submit a suggestion via the ingame option. It goes directly to them and isn’t just added to the swamp that forums often are. Even a blue said this on another post: