How do you âfollowâ someone into a thread when all threads are available for public use?
Its one thing to be on several threads at the same time, its another to engage someone because you think theyâre wrong for their opinion or whatever. I donât know what those opinions are, but its not a defining factor on harassing someone or stalking their several alts lol. Thats some low key Jeffrey dahlmer crap.
I also donât keep a log of people that said some âmeanâ things to me. Quite honestly everyone is human and has a bad day. You donât know what anyone on this forum is going through or had been through. If you want to walk around with a chip on your shoulder, youâre only dissing yourself tbh.
âThe best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.â
â Marcus Aurelius
âEverything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.â
â Marcus Aurelius
âOur life is what our thoughts make it.â
â Marcus Aurelius
Donât waste your life being pissed off, offended over things you canât control. Clearly you wouldnât like someone telling you what to do, so why do you allow them space in your mind, and to control your thoughts and feelings?
That doesnât make your situation better. As stated in my former response.
âThe best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.â
â Marcus Aurelius
Civility shouldnât be expected. Its something you give, whether it is returned or not shouldnât cloud your judgment. That expectation will lead to more disappointment and grief, and never ending back and forth, that is unproductive.
The issue is your expectation of others, and reiterating the offense given to you. This is largely why walking away is the better option or simply not engaging. Whatever the âunknownâ is to me, I am still skeptical but being unbiased.
Yeah, well, nothing we can do about that, and whatever that âbeefâ is, is between them.
We can only control our thoughts and actions.
We have no control over our health, our life, nature, wealth (tranistory) etc. So there is really no purpose in allowing our emotions to overwhelm our better judgment, if present.