You’re playing a game where you can pug 3/4 of the difficulties. If you’re in a static guild group and progging Heroic you’re trash, sorry.
Yes, I like to play with the same people and chat in discord and actually befriend the people I play with. WoW I can raid among 20 people, doesn’t have the same experience really. Even in Classic we saw that, you had 39 other people you’re raiding with but it wasn’t like they were all your friends, hell I hated half of my raid group in BWL and still only actively befriended like 6 people that I would actively do content with in the game like dungeons if a few were on.
XIV just takes the fluff players out of the equation that I don’t care about but need them to press buttons.
Right, because alts in WoW aren’t subjected to doing the same grinds, having to cap their currencies, needing their own legendaries made with Torghast, rep grinds, daily crap, having to do their own great vault progress. . .
Let me make it simple. XIV alts are literally not having to start again from scratch. WoW alts are. The closest you get to mitigating this fact is BoA stuff. Doesn’t change the fact I’m still grinding Torghast for them too, doing Maw dailies for them too, doing their great vault as well as my main’s. . .
An alt in XIV is just leveling it and getting it gear with tomestones I can do on my main job if I want. I can play my healer and gear my dragoon. I don’t have to literally duplicate everything I do to keep them optimal.