Well I am in my mid-30s, and I got no idea what to look for in terms of a relationship.
I haven’t really had time to think about it, in the past, relationships tended to just happen, and I find that if I put down a list of criteria of what I want/don’t want, people get pretty offended.
I suppose I will put it like this, it would take a very special single parent to peek my interest in anything more than a FWB, I know that sounds a bit mean, but my experience of going down that road is that it’s fun for a while, but it quickly turns negative.
In terms of philosophy/spiritual/political beliefs, I would want someone that’s aware of what’s going on in the world around them, but not to the extent that they put themselves too fanatically in either camp of a political issue, like it seems to be either full on MGTOW boys or full on feminists these days, there’s no balance left.
The demographic of people seem to be either full on anarchists that want nothing more to smoke and drink all day, probably hoon through red lights, probably do drugs too, or on the other extreme where they are so full on religion, so brainwashed to behave, that they get holier-than-thou and all sanctamonious if you dare question anything. Now to me, that’s called a brainwashing cult.
As far as wow is concerned, if I meet someone that’s balanced, that’s not too full on political but tries to see each issue on its own merit, and weigh up the procs and cons of each (i.e. someone capable of critical thinking) that would be good. I suppose that’s it, need someone that’s going to help you think, and see things critically, someone grounded but not overly emotionally attached to things…
Hmm…I think I might update my social online profiles…