I understand where you’re coming from. I think the disconnect is coming because of a there’s two things going on at once.
As players, I agree with the message I think you’re putting forth: Specifically, in a game about war, it’s a situation where your loss is my win, and vice versa. Under normal situations, I would also likely agree. In the case of the Legion opening, for example? Demonizing the Horde for ‘abandoning’ the Alliance isn’t something I would do. No one is - or should be - asking the Horde to stand trial for those actions.
This, though, is not a normal situation. This is quite literally a genocide, as the writers have clarified.
Though this might be moot. I suppose I should ask for some clarification, because I might be operating under an inaccurate premise.
Do we agree that the Burning of Teldrassil was wrong in a “beyond the pale” way? Do we agree that the Horde forces - under the command of the warchief Sylvanas Windrunner - was singly responsible for that?
The reason I’m asking this is because most of the distaste I feel, and a lot of what I’ve gleaned from other people? Is the fact that they are genuinely upset that they are being forced to do something they know is wrong. People don’t like the fact that their faction identity that was supposed to be about honor was being dragged through the mud and they are forced to do this. I know a lot of Horde RPers left during BFA because they couldn’t reconcile playing their character with what they were being forced to do. Even in this thread, Horde RPers were voicing concern about this. This was the same thing that happened during Siege of Orgrimmar, where a lot of Horde RPers didn’t like just being forced to be either the villain, or closely associated with the villain.
I bring that up because if there’s no agreement that this was actually wrong, then I doubt we’re going to see eye to eye on this.
To the second point, I’m asking about the Horde having responsibility for this because this isn’t a case of treachery, like the Wrathgate, or Onyxia messing with the nobles. This is a case where a direct command was given by the warchief at the scene, and it was carried out.
After this, there were many people in the Horde who stood up against this, even going so far as to take up arms against the warchief. Canonically, I don’t think (aside from some odd quest references) any Horde player currently in the game is actually one of Sylvanas’ people (though I don’t have a lot of experience on this, and welcome corrections).
Unless I’m grossly misreading these things, people are not asking to mow down Horde players any more than I would be mowing down Alliance members if I’m killing the Defias. The solution given was to create actual characters who are not remorseful for their part in genocide, and to have a victory against them.
These would not be members of the Horde in the same way the Defias aren’t really members of the Alliance, or the Shadow Council aren’t members of the Horde. Or Baron Vyraz wasn’t part of…the House of the Chosen, I think?
I think you might be under the impression that the goal here is to demonize the Horde playerbase. I do not think that is what is being suggested. I think people are trying to come up with a way to isolate the bad actors into a specific, concrete thing that can actually answer for a very serious crime.
This is a solution that is trying to not make the Horde players suffer. I would even suggest after those Sylvanas loyalists were killed by night elf forces? You could have an Horde war party show up right after. After a few seconds of tension, they could say something like “We had been tracking those people for weeks. Those butchers know nothing of honor, and have no place within the Horde.”
There. Night elves get a chance to do something (both having some retribution, and actually being able showcase being good at tracking things in the woods), and the Horde in general also gets to reestablish that honor is still important to them and don’t sound like they’re about go off screen and beat a puppy to death. It could resolve a lot of resentment from night elf players feeling like they’re being asked to just suck it up, and a lot of resentment from Horde players who didn’t roll on Horde to feel like a Saturday morning cartoon villain.