After reading what Fall just said due to Grand mentioning Fall earlier itās pretty clear heās just trying to make you look bad, throw shade and attack you and to me thatās just sad. I have never taken issue with Grand but now I do because thatās in really poor taste given despite him being anti LGBT you voted pro him joining where someone like me would be far less nice. So I fully support you standing your ground.
You all are in warring discords?? So much of this thread makes sense now.
I honestly donāt see why this is being discussed here, seems incredibly unrelated to the thread. Ultimately, people are allowed to have whatever opinions they want. This should honestly be talked about in private since itās clearly between specific people.
See youāre doing the thing again
If you never said the āstraight prideā thing, then fine, but I figured it was brought up there for a reason
He did, and it may have been a deleted thread however his stance rn talking about āspecial treatmentā was what he was saying when he made those points, so the core of the stance echoes the same
Because Grand brought it up for no reason, go back and see who started it.
Heās trying to trash Lann for no reason.
It was to throw shade at me because heās upset with what I said, Iām just one person like Fallyn said who provided context for why I was weary but open to giving him a chance.
He did, and it may have been a deleted thread however his stance rn talking about āspecial treatmentā was what he was saying when he made those points, so the core of the stance echoes the same
Right, and thatās why I said basically people were allowed to say their peace and why they might be a little bit offput. It wasnāt an attempt to slander or anything like that, from what I saw, more of a āhey this was implied or said, so letās just tackle that bridge if itās crossed here, alright?ā
Again, it really shouldnāt be on the forums though, it seems like an unnecessary clash.
(Iām just here explaining what I saw is all, Iām trying to remain objective in that yeah, it was a simple matter of āhey this might be something to be wary ofā)
So much of this thread makes sense now.
Exactly.
I usually just come here every day to read, give a few likes and a have good laugh.
Wanna be my popcorn partner? Itās better than the movies.
Because you where being bad! I was trying to advise you to stop being that way to help return this subject back to normal.
No I was not, you canāt hold grudges and bring up outside information to the forums to make people look bad as a way to control what you donāt like, in fact your original issue was my issue with Sledgehammer who honestly I stopped replying to the second she clarified her stance it was only re brought up because of you.
I have been gripped to this thread for days. Only thing worth checking. The drama, the history, the passion! Riveting.
To be fair, this drama started here, but has apperantly migrated onwards and āupwardsā.
ā¦thereās a reason Iāve never joined either of the discords, though Iāve been offered the chance to join both.
The plot thickens.
Iām the same way although the pro side never wanted me even when I was neutral but itās good to know Iām not the only one.
For what itās worth, I remembered someone had previously expressed discomfort with how Brae had responded in a LGBTQ+ thread. I brought it up in the voting first.
I wanted LGBTQ+ members to have the chance to express if they were comfortable with that. This will be a thing for the discord going forward. If potential members make current members uncomfortable because of some behaviors theyāve shown in threads, we will discuss that.
I can barely manage to talk to people face to face reliably! Iām not to be trusted with communities!
But since my views are pretty lowkey and I am occasionally guilty of posting to be contrarian or just silly, people tend to project what they want onto me.
ā¦thereās a reason Iāve never joined either of the discords, though Iāve been offered the chance to join both.
Canāt speak of the anti one, as I left it around 1-2 years ago, but discussing about forum drama in the Helf discord is not allowed (in fact iirc it was Lann who instated that rule back when he considered our server Disneyland and was a mod), so you wonāt find anything disturbing there, just a bunch of WoW geeks like me talking about everything
Aside from people wanting to attack people over real life info they found out and mods doing nothing about it.
Well for what itās worth even though we donāt always agree on stuff, you have become someone I really like on the forums so.
(in fact iirc it was Lann who instated that rule back when he considered our server Disneyland and was a mod), so you wonāt find anything disturbing there
Well like you said I was a mod so I kept a record of the issues on that server