Based on what you posted, it appears there was 0 communication prior to forming the party. I suppose this is the disconnect I have with people who post about issues with the LFG tool…
I haven’t accepted random invites, even while listed since maybe the first couple of days that we had the tool. I’ve had enough random invites from people just wanting to enter a raid instance or something similar, then drop group forcing me to relist that I decided it wasn’t worth the bother.
A simple, “Hey What’s this invite for?” if receiving a random invite, or a, “Yo! heal H+ VH?” if sending seems to do wonders.
It’s really not as bad as you describe it. But yeah WOTLK is technically just a half a step before retail in terms of game design. So I won’t be surprised to see people get bored and disconnected with it same way they did to retail wow.
badges. why spend extra time doing h+ so you can stroke your ego with your 4k dps when we can just run normal heroics and get badges 5x faster. understandable to want to do the daily heroic in H+ for the extra conquest badge, but outside of that, if youre geared and wanna do h+ for badges… youre a dope.