Lets all stop putting real world politics of any sort into video games where we fight zombies and dragons.
apparently you have listed âa set of rulesâ somewhere in this thread which makes some people who were excited about dracthyr now scared to play them as it may represent the âotherâ they are so afraid of.
the discussion has now shifted to victimizing people who do not see dracthyr as queer-coding done right because they are now forced to see what you see⌠and they said you were reaching, oh the irony.
These are things that make someone boring? You cannot be these and be an interesting person? This seems a little racist to me.
People like the OP are acidic to the community. Blizzard showing blatant favoritism to these type of threads is why I am leaving.
Those arenât rules. Theyâre observations.
I did have some problematic phrasing there, which I did change when it was pointed out. But even then, Iâm still not seeing where Iâm saying that the way I see this is the only way for it to be seen. As Iâve mentioned multiple times, the whole point is that this representation can exist without people that arenât looking for it ever noticing. This isnât overt. Itâs not forced. Itâs simply unobtrusive integration.
O my god, they wrote it, they wrote this and posted it.
I am gobsmacked
I am flabberghasted
I am bamboozled
I mean, weâll get statements to that effect for sure - eventually. The reality is, though, that no matter how delicate the strokes you make are, the simple presence of something that someone doesnât like is seen as âintrusiveâ by just being there.
As a gay man whoâs married to a man, I canât count the number of times Iâve been told (argued at) that itâs fine that weâre gay and all that but itâs not right for us to shove it in peoples faces. Since, you know, kissing my husband goodbye, holding his hand, or sitting close together on a bench in the snow with some hot chocolate, is very obviously us shoving it in peopleâs faces. Itâd be fine if we did normal stuff, of course, like not be gay in public apparently.
Just wait, weâll see it.
I mean⌠I posted this because I am excited to play the race. And the first thing I did was establish that I am none of these things. It would make no sense for me to create a âruleâ that would disallow myself to engage with the thing for which I myself am hyped.
The whole point is unobtrusive inclusiveness. At no point do I even hint at disallowing anyone to play or think in a certain way. I sense that baggage from other discussions make be seeping in here.
I donât know for him but here is what I think about it being forced.
It is as if I was to take a photo of trees in my backyard and then post it saying with a straight face âHow nice of mother nature to be supportive of X causeâ and believing it when there is arguably nothing special about the trees I photographed and no link whatsoever between the 2. Itâs disconnected.
There is absolutely nothing that was said/released/announced/revealed by Blizzard that would even start to remotely suggest your interpretation. It is quite literally based on no information at all.
Henceforth the âforcedâ feeling because there is absolutely nothing that was hinting us in this direction. Which means in turn that you really had to heavily bend the meaning of their âlookâ around to come to this conclusion.
Real world politics have been in video games for a very very very long time. And thereâs nothing wrong with those who feel that this is a good fit for them. The issue is telling others that this is how they must feel.
When a trans friend of mine comes to me with anxiety after reading this, because now they feel theyâre going to get called out for how they want to play this game, since someone had to make a set of rules about this⌠thatâs where I try to show some perspective.
And therein lies the issue: you donât see how others view it.
Literally just quoted it for you.
Thatâs how you see them. Not how everyone does.
You literally just made it that way. Youâre the one that made this front and center:
So what happens when non-binary donât feel that way? What happens when my trans friend doesnât like your set of rules? They feel vulnerable, anxious and as if everyone is suddenly going to be staring at them.
We already had people out here calling people âdegeneratesâ and âfurriesâ over this race. Now youâve got people discriminating based on your set of rules.
Everyone is being represented in damn near everything now. Can we shut up and play games now? Why does this have to be a thing every time a game, movie, Disney show, etc. is made?
This here is the problem with identity politics. Youâre assuming white straight guys are the generic norm- and that assumption carries weight. Are people who are not like you not generic? Somehow different? Uh-oh weâre tip toeing into âotheringâ people now. An underlying assumption that puts large groups of people into a very narrow box.
Is my Asian wife not generic? Must be âexoticâ. Thatâs not problematic at all to think, right?
I did not read this thread but I did scroll to the bottom to get to the juicy stuff.
The topic itself rubs some people the wrong way just talking about it so it is not very surprising, I mean the first 20 responses were almost all that you created a bait thread and it will be a troll fest.
I think it just shows where people stand, they will say it doesnt matter or they dont care but will be first in line to rebuke whatever you have to say.
the point of normalizing for some what is normal for others just flies above their heads because I donât think people who see things as normal understand why it gets to be ânormalâ in the first place. the post about doing something right and people not being sure you did anything at all is perfect in this context.
except now some of them are, like i said, victimizing themselves because you made them see something they would rather not see, which circles back to the cringe âshoving it in my faceâ argument lol
the only person who refers to OPâs post as a set of rules is you.
its not
A fair point. But I would contend that my specific demographic being âgenericâ is the problem - thatâs why these kinds of discussions need to happen to normalize those that have been historically âotheredâ by society. The fetishizing of certain demographics is certainly problematic; in these cases, more representation, like that which Iâve detailed in the OP, only helps to normalize. Especially when itâs presented in an unobtrusive way.
what are you on about? On the very first day there was a multi-hundred post thread about how androgynous the dragon forms look. And yes, I am 100% annoyed by it mostly because it fails to convey either the raw strength and power of the dragons nor the sleek agility and perpetual motion of serpents that dragons often emulate. Instead, it exists in a halfway point that fails to convey either and makes them look a little wimpy.
Also, the ârainbow abilitiesâ thing being queer coding is utterly ridiculous when it has more to do with the colors of the dragonflights themselves. Wanna bet they have black dragon abilities?
You have to be careful when dealing with topics like this though. Sometimes things meant to be helpful can be harmful. Thereâs not really a need to preface an argument by setting the tone of what is ânormal/genericâ ârun of the millâ etc. It doesnât really add to your argument and might even hurt it a little. You can be inclusive, while also not using phrases that make one group feel attacked and another as ânot the normâ
That still doesnât make any sense because sex, gender, gender identity, and sexual orientation are all inherently linked to the need for sexual reproduction. Without sexual reproduction, none of those things matter. Thereâs no way they could be either heterosexual or homosexual. They would all be asexual.
An alchemically created species that doesnât reproduce sexually isnât going to have a sexual orientation because they donât need to have sex to reproduce. Chances are they wonât even have males or females, let alone have genitals or mammary glands, unless youâre implying thereâs some weird medieval based nerd sex fantasy at play here.
The subtext was not picked up on, is the greater point.
As for the chromatic effect, as mentioned, it is absolutely graceful how theyâve used the core dragonflights in this particular way. They could have simply used red effects for red spells, green for green, black for black, and so on. They didnât. They chose to have a rainbow effect. Again, not all that meaningful for those not looking for this, and gracefully integrated.
Perfection.