This thread vaguely reminded me of something on the CS forum a while ago - the subject was very similar, and the combativeness of the OP was quite similar as well. It turned from “If I did this” into “people are doing this make them stop”.
Anyways, a blue told them straight-up that everything was fine.
So, I went and found that thread for OP’s reference. Since blue text holds far more weight than white text, maybe this will help them out.