First I want to preface this by saying I don’t mean to be critical of anyone’s story or writing or how they enjoy themselves in this or other RPGs. This question is honestly just in good faith and to help me learn and hopefully maybe even enjoy RP more.
Across all kinds of RPGs, from WoW to FFXIV to ESO, it seems the majority of regular events are quite mundane things. Coffee shops and tea houses. Beach parties and night clubs.
And my question is why?
For me, what appeals to me about RP is playing a role you don’t get to play in real life very much or at all. To be an adventurer, or a superhero, or even something that’s not totally fictional. I’ve been a gumshoe detective or a diplomat or a gangster, etc, on forum RPs and such before. I’m also not saying RP has to be “gogogogo”, some of the more fun D&D sessions in my life have been the party chatting in a tavern about their next move, or swindling some townsfolk in really low-stakes hustles not related to the story at all, etc. But I just suppose I am kind of mystified by the popularity of these events and this style of RP.
My question isn’t saying that its wrong to have those kind of events and enjoy them. By all means play how you want. But these sorts of things seem wildly popular, even perhaps the majority of public events.
Is it just because they’re kind of easier to run?
Again my intent is not to pass judgment or cause any offense. Indeed, ideally I’d like to know more about the appeal so I could maybe see this style of RP in a new light and get interested in taking part.