I’m going to have to chalk your lack of success up to bad luck and not being in the right place at the right time.
Because the night before last, I and several others in my guild were in the Valley of Honor, actively looking for potential members.
I’m even working on getting other guilds together for a big RP guild recruitment event next month. The official thread’s going up this weekend, but anyone who’s interested can contact me ahead of time over Discord. Tamani#2391
But ignoring all the in-game RP events that’ve been going on, the following RP guilds/events have been bumped in the past 48 hours…
https://us.forums.blizzard.com/en/wow/t/h-rp-dance-of-the-earthmother-winter-2021/797706/2
https://us.forums.blizzard.com/en/wow/t/neutral-rp-event-ironforge-winter-craft-fest-192021/775098/7
https://us.forums.blizzard.com/en/wow/t/h-rppve-embersworn-lf-rpers-raiders/816783
https://us.forums.blizzard.com/en/wow/t/a-rp-shadow-of-the-forest-recruitment-now-open/718164
https://us.forums.blizzard.com/en/wow/t/h-rp-lordaeron-unbound-oceanic/332610
https://us.forums.blizzard.com/en/wow/t/n-rp-event-poetry-story-night-jan-15th/809944
https://us.forums.blizzard.com/en/wow/t/h-rp-southfury-watch/561855
https://us.forums.blizzard.com/en/wow/t/h-rp-event-the-bloodhoof-story-circle/17935
Granted they aren’t all D&D style action/adventure groups, but I definitely know those are out there too. And recruiting in game. You might want to check out the Hand of Algalon, Nether Striders, Rutilus Luna, Runeweaver Clan, or Southfury Watch in game.
If you’re looking for something more in-character, feel free to add me to your friends list and try to catch me late morning or evenings! In the meantime, good luck!