Im sorry, i think you miss quoted me.
Please tell me which part you meant to disagree on me with. Im pretty sure its not the part saying that we are all people and should be treated equally.
Unless you meant to do that and are secretly the next expansions villain =P
Rated is there but now poses consequences on performance. If you lose, CR/MMR is on the line, altering the dynamic of the group. You go from mass inviting everyone to having to check rating and being choosy.
You go from casual fun in a group to playing to win.
You go from not caring about gear to inspecting.
You go from any class to buff stacking.
Thats the problem with pushing them to rated, compared to randoms.
Random BGs were never balanced competitive pvp. I still remember the day in BC where they tried to balance randoms, same number of healers, same number of dps. Lasted one day. Healer ques hit 4 hours, DPS hit 6 hours. Was hotfixed fast. They tried sub honour level 30 in thier own que, that lasted from legion to DF.
Premades beating pugs does happen. They are more organized.
Geared team vs non geared team happens. They are out geared.
Team of experienced players vs team of new players does happen. They are more experienced.
Looped sided games happen. Been part of both sides. Those games usually end pretty fast, and off to the next one you que. Giving up though because of those reasons, not trying becuase of those reasons is silly to me, but alot of people do.
Mass majority of the match is played full team vs full team if people dont quit. If you start short on team members, change strats till your team is filled. Changing strats doesnt worsen the player experience and once filled, push forward. I meant the comment as more of an olive branch while i was trying to edit spelling errors (not the best typer as you can tell). Lots of players instantly quit when forced to change outside thier norm, even if the match is winnable. If Blizz autofilled faster, those players would leave less.
Your Edit 1
You are making this black white when its grey. Bob can still play and pvp agaisnt them. If Bob is alt tabbing to watch youtube, they still end the game with more honour than they started with. Bob lost, got honour, ques again. Bob is still making progress towards thier goals. Fighting a premade doesnt stop Bobs progress or make him lose CR/MMR. Bob can still be Bob.
Edit 2
You can still have fun. You can still fight others, you can still hit your buttons. You can still have fun playing the game, even if its a loss. Fun doesnt only come from winning, you can you have fun still playing the game and doing your thing. Time lost is less in the premade than an actual loss. You said premades are usually quick stomps, so its lose get honour, que again for more.
My edit 1: Sorry for the long post and bad spelling…and worse grammer.