Right, which is the exact stance I am taking. RDF doesnât change that. Itâs just a way to facilitate cross realm groups and matchmaking on a more effective scale.
Thatâs an aspect of the system, but not the purpose.
Because itâs not some individual random person wanting the thing you just said. itâs 5 people coming together that want to clear the content. And âclearingâ it is entirely determined by the player. You seem to be under the misconception that just because RDF was added to the game that somehow fundamentally changes the way groups are handled and content is cleared. It doesnât. Itâs merely a system that more easily facilitates cross realm grouping for 5 man content. Nothing else. You are still required to coordinate with the other players.
It doesnât vet players by their spec, by their gear types, by their abilities. It doesnât for instance make sure you have enough interrupts for content that needs that. it doesnât make sure that your spec is correct. it doesnât do anything other than take 5 players who qualify for the arbitrary ilvl requirement and the roles and slap them together. The rest of that is on the players. If you donât like how random players behave in RDF, stop doing RDF. This is what it means to socialize. You have to deal with other players. You canât force them to believe the way you personally believe.
I can no more force my guild to accept my meme specs for raiding anymore than you can force players to stop expecting a certain level of gearing for harder content, even RDF.
No, they donât want to waste their time. Because their time is valuable too. If youâre not willing to do easier content until you have a better relative gear to progress into harder content, what you are saying to the geared players is âMy time is more valuable than yours, you should suffer for my sakeâ. Thatâs the message being sent.
Now, we can have a discussion on what is and is not a reasonable expectation of gear, where players should look to get better, what kind of attitudes to have, and whether gearscore makes sense in some scenarios. But if your stance is that just because you can hit a button on RDF means other players should have to deal with having you in their group, we will never agree.
You can show a LOT before the first pull just by the gear you are wearing. The problem you are having is you arenât being nuanced in your statement on gearscore. Youâre not saying âI have a reasonable gearscore for the content, AND I have my gems and enchants, AND I made sure to get the priority pre-bis pieces first.â What you are saying is âI can hit the button on RDF, why arenât the groups accepting me?â
The effort that you put into your gear before queueing for the hardest available content in 5 mans does a lot to show the kind of player you are. Your attitude, your viewpoint, and how likely you are to be a drain on the rest of the party. If I am a 6k gearscore dps and my tank is 3500 gearscore and my healer is 3200 gearscore, I am NOT about to have a good time. Because either I will have to spend my time offhealing to supplement the healer, or I will be pulling aggro the moment I sneeze in anythingâs general direction. Is that fair to me? Should I now have to pull extra weight and double duty just because I am geared and they are not?
Gammas are not the first available content in the RDF. You canât do them right away. You canât just queue for it immediately. It is a PROGRESSION based system, just like raids. You donât go from ulduar to ICC with minimal gearing and no preparation. You spend time getting your set bonuses, enchanting gear, targeting your upgrades. Why should you not be expected to do the same just because RDF lets you queue for it? If anything itâs more toxic, to me, to demand that other players who are geared, who did the work and effort to get that gear, and who are putting in their time, effort, energy, and money for that to have to conform to taking anyone and everyone who thinks they should be in the content.
I get that itâs frustrating and annoying to be denied groups you think you are ready for because you want the gear. And if your argument is âI have all 232+ pieces, the only upgrades I can expect to get are going to come from running gammasâ or âIâve got a very sensible full 210+ gearset, and I can benefit more from gammas and I can run them effectively tooâ we wouldnât be in disagreement. But thatâs not your argument.
Your argument is âI met this arbitrary ilvl, why arenât other players forced to play with me?â Which is a very terrible and really bad argument to make. You canât force them to have to take you along. Your point isnât nuanced at all. And itâs a really scary viewpoint that is very self-centered overall.