I’m doing bullet points because formatting it the other way is exhausting.
• Don’t get me wrong, I think it was a noble thing Varian did, but sparing someone is not a positive action. It’s simply not a negative one. I would think we could agree that a positive action would be something that generates positivity, not something that merely maintains the status-quo.
Also, if the Horde is truly as evil as you claim, then sparing the Horde was not a postive action because it would be allowing that evil to continue to exist.
• Following that, Jaina saving Thrall and allowing him to spread his brand of “evil” to continue is not a postive action.
I, personally, think it was a positive action, but it doesn’t fit your narrow definition as something that was wholly altruistic and didn’t benefit one’s self at all. Her stated goal for Wrath, even a higher priority than fighting the Scourge, was brokering peace between the Alliance and the Horde. Thrall was necessary for her to achieve her goals. She benefitted from sparing him.
• “It was a gift so the Horde won’t attack them again.” So Tyrande did it not out of the kindness of her heart, you say, but because she benefited from a cease in hostilities. That’s not altuism, that’s cutting your losses.
• I can’t speak with any authority on this because I only went through the whole Suramar campaign once on the Horde side, but I suspect sparing Nightborne refugees is a side effect of both Alliance and Horde having the same World Quests with different dialogue. Still, more refugees spared means more meatshields for your soldiers to hide behind.
• I can spin all day and not get dizzy. But that’s the difference between you and me. I’m aware of when I am spinning and can admit when I am doing it without my whole argument falling apart, because I’m not an extremist. I don’t hate the Alliance. I can acknowledge the many faults of the Horde.
Many edits because I accidentally deleted this post and had to undo the deletion. Also typos and rewording.