It’s called I want to play the game and not have to worry about it. This is a GAME. It should be FUN. It shouldn’t be stressful. It should have VERY clear and easy rules and guidelines that are clear and easy to understand that doing X is punishable, and as long as you don’t do X you’re safe.
This game has changed a LOT since I started back in Wrath, not for the better. More and more you have to walk on eggshells around here.
Yeah which is why I just don’t talk lol. I used to back in the day. But now I just see leaving as the peaceful solution where I can’t get in trouble for saying the wrong thing
If you cant tell the difference between
“Hey Rogue, could you kick a little more often?”
and
“Jesus Christ Rogue you’re an idiot.” (with some choice words that the forums wont allow)
Then that’s on you.
That’s a good question, but sometimes you don’t say those because if all of the above is true, you’re probably not timing a key, and further, you’re probably not going to get their dps to increase no matter how willing they are to listen to feedback and how cogent your feedback is.
If you’re already in the combat zone, it’s a bit late to make sure everyone brought ammo.
Now, as other’s have mentioned, suggesting or kindly asking for help on kicks and general utility is something I feel that can turn around in a short period of time, largely because some folks may assume the tank has the kicks, or, someone else does. And then also reinforcing when they’re rocking the utiltiy (e.g., “damn good kicks, ty”) can go a long way make folks feel comfortable and maybe speak up themselves.
We all have certain expectations for the dungeon, sometimes they’re aligned, sometimes they’re not. Staying silent ensures we may never know someone else’s expectation. (We don’t need the 12-volume set on how to change a lightbulb but a “hey, i don’t think we have the dps for this, you guys good to complete or wanna call it?” is acceptable to determine expectations)
I heard it, there is more to it than leaving groups, because leaving groups has been a thing for quite some time. I still don’t know how one can equate that news with what Xy wrote.