Maybe we could have some outfits with an “optional appearance”. Foor those that want to go all in on these there could be a checkbox in the settings that will make these visible or show them as a more modest version. As such more prudent people would feel safe and those that want to enjoy the eye candy also get their fun. Only selected outfits will have this functionality. If you want to be encased in steel while enjoying the scenery, you could still do that in such a system.
A system like this and designers can feel free to design these things and update the graphic quality of the old ones.
Please keep in mind: People, who play sexy characters in games are either not looking nothing like this in RL or males, who want to play sexy female characters.