Why do you think the gear goes to the officers and their friends, rather than to the characters who will contribute the most to winning the rest of the fights if you give them the gear? In my own experience it was people I wasn’t really close with who were upset with me when I spent a week of their time getting tier and trinkets for new recruits.
(a funny part of this was that we didn’t get that many upgrades for our undergeared priest officer that week, so he still had barely enough health to survive unavoidable damage when we finished the raid)
The way it seems to work out for players who don’t want to put in the time to fill their great vaults is that they still clear mythic, they just have to do it in guilds that are okay with them being undergeared compared to casual heroic players. Which may be a step down that they do not enjoy.