Also, you don’t need to be a great player in order to see if something is going wrong, if stuff is not dying, but the group is having 20 wipes, you can assume that something is going wrong, and that’s when the finger pointing happens.
Ironically this means that usually it’s bad players themselves who flame others for no reason as many of these threads want us to believe, a good player is capable of seeing whether someone’s performance was up to standard, a bad player doesn’t have the mechanical knowledge to make an accurate assessment of the situation.
Though, to be honest, if you’re a half decent player you rarely catch blame.
I bet that most people in the game have at least a damage meter, so if you’re doing terrible numbers chances are you’re not a good dps, if you’re dying on pulls immediately and this happens many times over, you’re probably not a great tank, if the group is constantly low hp there’s probably an healing issue. So while being a good player allows you to draw more accurate conclusions on what exactly is wrong, it’s not too hard even for a pretty bad player to have a rough idea on the situation.
And if everyone was terrible, then everyone is gonna flame each other, and at that point the argument about being singled out simply does not stand.
Usually the way i can tell if someone is really a cut above the rest is proper utility usage, and perfect interrupts, there are quite a few players for example, that can do pretty good damage, or healing, but as soon as it’s time to use an interrupt, or utility on another player, like a lay on hands to save someone, or a dispell on yourself when you can do it, they fumble pretty hard.