You also agreed to the rules that allow you to play the game.
Don’t like the rules? Don’t agree to them and take the toxicity elsewhere, but you’re going to find that games without restraints are few and far between. People are tired of being belittled, berated and made miserable over something that is supposed to be an enjoyable pastime because someone else doesn’t know how to act. Or worse, chooses not to. But that way? That way there be consequences.