So I know I sometimes talk trash in games, and I’ve tried to get much better at it in games (League I was a giant turd.) I know too in HotS there has been issues, and I’ve tried to continue to improve, but I have yet again suffered a suspension, but no real reason why than “abusive chat.” Now I’ve had games that began with me, heading to bot lane vs going mid for a team fight, to have a person on my team, first one to say anything, ask me if I am in not so nice terms, if I was either a noob or not smart. (A LOT worse than that.)
I’ve really tried myself to not say anything inflammatory, but if someone is already getting on you before you’ve literally done or said anything, and you fire back, should you get the ban hammer so hard? I was receiving a lot of those, “How well do you feel the reporting system works?” and every single time w/out fail I say it’s the -5 most negative face. There are far more toxic people out there. I’ve even tried to remind myself to not get heated, to even some times let people know, hey I need to take a short break from game, before I rage out…which is met with cries of “AFKer! REPORT! REPORT!”
So rather than just come on here to complain or whine, I’d like to have a discussion, as I’ve seen many on the topic, of how to actually help to shape the community to not be as toxic.
First off, as a 20+ year MOBA vet I have seen, longer games = more toxic players. If I get locked into a 20 something minute game w/ someone who is absolutely getting my goat, it becomes inevitable I will fire back at them. No matter how much patience I have in game.
My suggestion: Forgive leaver feature. Say you have x2 people going at it in game, and either one of them or you wish to leave. You could ping to alert your team, that X team mate would like to be allowed to leave. If the majority of the team (yes I know some clowns would think it’s cute if they are verbally sparring w/ you to vote note to let you leave, just to “get you”) agrees (we’ll say x3 of the x5 players) then you may leave. You would get no XP or credit for the game, would count as a “Leave Forgiven” in game stats, but not count as being an actual person who just leaves the game when things go south.
My next suggestion is that I really would like to know what chat is considered “abusive”. This is such a broad term. I could say, for example, one game I was letting a Deathwing on my team know what I thought of his play, but I wasn’t berating him in doing so. I specifically remember asking more, “What are you doing??” Is critiquing someone’s play considered “abusive?” To what degree? I feel a full on suspension should be reserved for -actual- abusive language, such as say, racism, threats, etc. Online communities will always have their not so pleasant aspects (YouTube comments, anyone?)
My 3rd & final suggestion, as a step to replace suspensions would be a two-step process, first being a chat gag. Even if instead of permanently banning any accounts, mute their in-game chat. I know this is already a thing, but it should IMO replace no being able to play the game at all. Bringing that up, an option of ONLY playing w/ the AI, w/ AI team mates. More of the punishment fitting the crime, as if someone shows they are disrupting other player’s, alright fine, play by your own.
In conclusion, no I’m not begging for a reversal of my suspension, as apparently I did get to enough people to warrant them reporting me over the last month or so. But I do want to find better solutions vs just suspensions. Online communities won’t just become magically better because you ban people from them. There has to be a better process.