I never once mentioned the quality of the gear. You try to say that no one comprehends what you’re saying, but here you are putting words in my mouth.
A player with bad quality gear is doing what he needs to. It’s unfortunate, and I prefer not to have them on my team in a random bg, but, all our toons start there at some point. It’s a rite of passage. Take your lumps.
That is not what you are doing. 
For those who don’t know, this individual refuses to raid because of “gatekeepers”, only bgs and 2’s with a duo, peaking 1646. He’s a half and half ele/enhance with a armor/on use dodge trinket, a caster staff enchanted with agi, gemmed for parry. It gets worse the longer you look. These are all pvp epics of relentless/wrathful tier.
Ironforge(dot)pro → Wafectus → Everything I said is right there in front of you, for the non believers.
With what I just stated, yes, you are. A player with low quality gear is not indicative of their skill, only their equipped items, and where else is he going to go to get his upgrades.
You on the other hand actively grief yourself for whatever reason, and that in turn griefs the entire rest of the team. That is purely indicative of skill, because you could have easily looked up the plethora of guides and got the baseline correct, but you didn’t. You chose to do this, and then whine when people don’t want you in their groups. This is a you issue that you created for yourself. You can fix it right now, but refuse to.
So yes, I’d take the guy with greens over you.
Edit: To avoid having you say something about not addressing gammas, those are also catch up content for gear. Raid = Arena. Instances = BGs. I have the exact same sentiment to gammas as I do to bgs.