Female irl here. Yes I definitely would. A lovely friend of mine I played with in WOW since WOTK took me out for a lovely evening last valentines day. I was a bit nervous, but I went and I had such a great time. The guy was very well manned and in good shape too. I had such a great time and I have zero regrets about going. People just need to make sure they are careful and spend time getting to know someone before meeting. Watch for red flags.