I think a lot of Horde players are resentful that the Alliance has -always- had the moral highground. Warcraft 1 and 2 they were the Good Guys, they were founded as the good guys. In WoW they have continued to be the Good Guys when the Horde has been the major villain in a few expansions at this point.
A lot of them want to see the Alliance have a turn at being the villain as some twisted sense of revenge. “I had to deal with it, now it is your turn” and there are some Alliance players who want this too, because the flip side of that is the Alliance will get to inflict the kind of pain they themselves felt after War of Thorns, after Theramore and Southshore.
And that is where these arguments come from, because everyone wants their cake and eat it too. I will use myself as an example. I believe the Night Elves deserve revenge. I do not think them wanting that makes them a villain, and I think a -significant- martial victory over the Horde that somehow repays for the loss of Teldrassil is owed.
And it is not about making Horde fans feel what I feel over something they had no choice in. It is about my favorite race and their autonomy. Right now, playing a night elf feels empty. You are a weak and broken people, consistently brutalized and murdered by the Horde with complete impunity, and that’s it. That’s not fun to play. That doesn’t make me feel powerful, it’s not the kind of power fantasy that should come with playing a thousand year old, 7 foot tall, muscle mommy that can shoot an English Longbow as if it were a short bow. (Seriously, think about what is must be like fighting Night Elves. A volley of arrows fired from bows that can be much larger than any bow used by humans on Earth, hitting with the force and range of small ballista.)
I think a lot of Horde players don’t want to admit how much they enjoyed War of Thorns. Because it is a horrible piece of storytelling, and the effect it had on the community was so volatile, and it made playing a Night Elf so miserable, that people quit the game in droves.
But how could they not enjoy it? You kicking the ever living crap out of your enemy in their own house. Blitzing through an entire CONTINENT full of DENSE FORESTS GUARDED BY THE WORLDS GREATEST GUERRILLA FIGHTING FORCE in a matter of WEEKS and finishing it off with a completely merciless destruction of a Capital City that was a symbol for Kaldorei rebirth and perseverance, and cradled the blessings of the Dragonflights.
The Horde utterly embarrassed the Kaldorei and ontop of it all, got to destroy something that not only had political significance, but religious and social as well. Of -course- Horde players enjoyed that.
So now we are all in this place of, like I want retaliation without being villainized in the story, because quite frankly I don’t believe there is such thing as a response that wouldn’t be justified from the Kaldorei. But also Horde players want the Alliance to be villainized like they were without having to make the sacrifices the Alliance has had to make by playing the victims for all these years.
It’s not about what you want for other players, it’s about what you want for yourself. I quit retail for many reasons, but one of those reasons was I was tired of feeling like a victim. I was tired of playing a part in a story where I was the emotional motivation but otherwise completely irrelevant. I was tired being told my righteous anger and desire for vengeance was wrong.
It’s not, and no one can convince me otherwise.