If people don’t like someone knowing there IRL name, then maybe the smart idea is to not use it as a Discord tag. 
I accidently posted Lanns real first name by accident, and edited my post that day as soon as I noticed my mistake. But Lann caught on quickly, and acted like it was harrasment towards him, despite it is not.
But seriously Avarie, stop playing the Victim complex.
As for the bahaviour of someone else, I am still trying to paint a bigger picture of what really happened.