You should check out the blood elf thread for customization.
They’re more than just a light theme. (though keep that part too.)
Your current list of what blood elf folk want is not encompassing.
I’d like that. Many options can be found in my thread…
It’s not all encompassing, and I’m still updating it, but it’s a good start.
Personally I think the Velf hair colors are very nice on and work for belfs and should be shared. (both belf and velf should get pink hair.)
That said I’ve seen both sides want the hair styles (and some being against it.)
This is definitely a request I’ve seen for high elves currently.
I’ve also seen the option to change the race tag to high elf, add paladin as a class, and provide Alleria style Farstrider Tattoos.
Oh also more recently I’ve seen several request a blood color change?
I think if you seriously are seeking a compromise thread you need to consider all sides of this argument and it’s various viewpoints.
I hope this can help you.