I mean, they’re not wrong from what I’ve seen. You couldn’t give rational reasons why you dislike that server or why people have ‘legitimate’ reasons to dislike it.
Further, you admitted to consistently making threads as ‘bait threads’ to troll, so I know who to believe here.
You admit to declining them from your groups.
and the only thing you cited was ‘language barriers’. That is wanting to not have someone in your group because they don’t speak the same language as you.