I see it all over the place, all over every single platform.
I don’t know women like that because if I talked to one who did such a thing, I would kick them to the curb as quickly as humanly possible.
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That’s a shame.
Sounds like you have some bad women in your life? This hasn’t at all been my experience, or the experience I’ve had witnessed with other people being abused.
I’m sorry you went through abuse, but that isn’t a justification to judge all women.
Sadly, women are better at putting on a good face, and us men are too stupid to see through it. I will say I trust women more when they talk other women, you’ll see through each other easily.
Like social media? Ah, ok. I’m not on any social media (besides this, lol). I’ve just never personally known someone like that. I’d have no tolerance for being around them.
Yeah, keep that up, you’re surely not coming off as a sexist.
I suggest you stop seeing everything as “groups” and start seeing individuals. Maybe you’ll stop being so narrow minded.
Some are for sure. But I wouldn’t say men are too stupid to see through it but mainly, it’s an issue of things being lost in translation.
On both ends, a lot of people doesn’t bother to see and try to empathize for many different reasons… which is why you end up with people like certain someone who puts people in boxes, instead of thinking of each person individually.
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Not too sure about that…I think both sexes have adequate representation for fakers, manipulators and con-artists.
ITs ok, I used to believe like you. Then reality hit me. I saw the guys I work with and what happened to them. I have seen enough men broken because a woman had a change of heart or a better offer. My first wife even tells me know how a huge part of our divorce was interference by her friends. They thought she would take the house, the kids and half my salary. No one realized she would drop the kids and everything to me so she could run off with a guy she met online (in 1999).
Good luck to you.
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Sounds like you’ve been made bitter by the actions of a few women. I’ve been hurt by women too, but I didn’t fall into a rabbit hole to start believing that all women were like that.
That’s a path that will only lead to more misery for you.
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Me neither.
But yes, social media in general it’s a festering ground for women who shame and mock men who dealt with abuse. Either that or downplay it.
I don’t know why I even bother with social media at all (even if I’m more of a lurker than someone who post anything). It’s an awful, awful thing.
No, instead, you deny the gender of any woman who might think out of line.
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This scandal reminds me of Kim Phan from Blizzard, she also manage to get away without notice.
ROFL I am an old man, being kept alive my meds, who is half insane and taking care of my 25 year old disabled son. I have been beaten and abused by men and destroyed by multiple women.
Between what I saw my mom due to my dad when he got cancer, to my why exes did to me, to what my ex did to my son the couple of years I agreed to let him live there, to what my own daughter is doing. Thats just family
I have no reason or care to change my opinion. I can be nice to people, I am not so insane to shout hateful things, but it doesnt mean I have to actually believe what people like you try to tell the “real” work is like, because in my experience, you live in fantasyland
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You don’t think people ever pretend to be someone they aren’t to strengthen an argument?
This happens all the time. And again, it doesn’t rly matter; your arguments are trash regardless.
You can believe what you like. It sounds like your way of thinking has already led to you being more miserable than you need to be.
And it’s not purely some empathetic plea to believe that women can be better; it’s that you’re fundamentally, objectively, just wrong.
I’m sorry to hear that. But there are a lot of bad people in the world, doesn’t matter what gender. And i’m sorry but wtf is wrong with your daughter.
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Here is the point you are missing, what lead me here was I believed like you do. I was idealistic. I believed in all women. After what I went though as a kid I hated men. Nothing bad had happened with my mom so I thought women were “sugar and spice and everything nice”.
SO I believed. I trusted. I thought the old guys who said watch out were just bitter old men. I paid the price for believing, but I was adamant I was right, so I tried again. Failed again. I gave it one last shot being as sure as you are that things like this are extremely rare, could happen three times could it? Then it did. Then my mom’s stuff happened. then my daughter.
Because I believed EXACTLY as you do.
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You really shouldn’t justify yourself to some stranger who can’t even fathom that a woman disagreeing with his idea that women are all supposed to think the same way even exist.
Absolutely happens.
But that doesn’t mean the reasons why the suspicion comes up cannot be questioned too.
Your only reason to suspect me it’s nothing but “This forsaken doesn’t think women don’t mock male victims?? They must be a man!”.
Yeah… that’s… rather sexist my dude.
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Well three times is still anecdotal, is it not?
I don’t trust most people and haven’t been in a serious relationship in a while because of this. I’m casually dating, but I don’t trust any of these women fully. But I realize what I don’t trust is people in general. Women are just people, with all the bad, and good, that entails.
When you speak, are you so young that you cannot speak from your own experiences or do you need data from everyone else’s?
At my age, I go by MY experiences because regardless of the rest of the worlds data, this has been my life and I have lived the results.
Yes it happens. Women can and absolutely do mock men who suffer abuse. But you have implied multiple times that you think women do this more often, while everything I’ve seen in my life reinforces the opposite.
And no I don’t trust someone who says they’re a women when all their arguments are demeaning and dismissing women. Just like I don’t trust people on forums who say they are black men who are pro white nationalism. Sure, that happens, but those are few and far between enough to be able to make a pretty educated guess.