So what's the deal with this lore?

Because instead of helping nature, a lot of them care more about meddling with mortals, one way or another. Almost all the loa are focused on their followers, or to gather more of them. To her, who is hyperfocused on keeping her own realm intact, and on keeping the cycle of ardenweald going, such things are completely irrelevant.
Must I also remind you she refered Ysera, someone you very clearly refers to as a “Night elven god”, as “my sisters pet”. Hardly a nice thing to call someone.