RWF - Don't turn Mental Health into a scapegoat

[Baridorielor-malfurion (Baridorielor)]

@Thereza-netherwind

“them”.

They/them aren’t too different here…

@Thereza-netherwind

They simply made the thread about my gender.

Because you made it about gender. You literally took a minor comment form somebody and topicswitch your own thread to be about that now. You have nobody to blame but yourself.

@Thereza-netherwind

I asked politely for people stop talking about my gender.

Nobody was talking about your gender until you bought it up, and even then, their not talking about your gender. Their talking about the attitude you’ve approached to that one minor part of the comment and decided to take off on it.

@Thereza-netherwind

It is irrelevant to the thread.

Then why did you comment on Phialara’s part of the comment to begin with?.. If it’s irrelevant to you, you would just ignore it.

@Thereza-netherwind

You probably don’t understand what NO and STOP means.

Nice projection mate. Practice what you preach mate.

[Phialara-hyjal]

The only person talking about YOUR RL GENDER is you.

I.
Am.
Talking.
About.
Your.
Game.
Avatar.

ARE WE CLEAR YET?

[Annastasi-proudmoore]

@Thereza-netherwind

Discussing the gender of the poster because they find fun to mock people.

you are the only one making a big deal about gender. get over it. no one cares what gender you are.

[Kaiba-garona (Kaiba)]

@Phialara-hyjal

That would have been fine. I even would have been fine calling them they if they requested in initially. The he/she had nothing to do with rl identity at all. I don’t care what is in someone’s pants on the wow forums. If it is a male avatar I will say he, if it is a female avatar I will say she, if I don’t pay attention to the avatar I will say he/she.

Exactly, there was no need to throw you under the bus for such petty non-sense, then continues to say that we are pushing the issue, we’re not Thereza STARTED THE ARGUMENT.

[Féyrre-wyrmrest-accord]

@Thereza-netherwind

Are you a specialist?

I’m curious if you saw my post. You asked for me to leave if I didn’t want to discuss the issue, so I discussed the issue and received no response. It may have just been lost in the masses.

[Thereza-netherwind]

@Kaiba-garona

No no, YOU MADE THIS THREAD.

I made the thread to discuss the topic: RWF and the association of mental health with the forfeit of the competition, and the preparation of the guilds to the RWF.

@Kaiba-garona

Then changed the subject to be about gender.

People started talking about my gender, and I simply asked to stop talking about it.

People keep talking about it.
People keep pushing it.

You keep talking about it.
You keep pushing about it.

Again, once and for all:

STOP TALKING ABOUT MY GENDER.

[Hsjdkgfkjsh-khazgoroth]

@Zimvisible-velen

but I have seen the community use that excuse for them.

i think this is it. It’s outsiders/community calling it a mental health issue, and unfortunately the OP (whilst i agree with OP) is re-enforcing what the community is calling it.

[Annastasi-proudmoore]

I think he’s mad

[Kaiba-garona (Kaiba)]

@Thereza-netherwind

I made the thread to discuss the topic: RWF and the association of mental health with the forfeit of the competition, and the preparation of the guilds to the RWF.

You made the thread about the RWF and Mental Health, then picked one harmless comment and changed the subject.

@Thereza-netherwind

People started talking about my gender, and I simply asked to stop talking about it.

People keep talking about it.
People keep pushing it.

You keep talking about it.
You keep pushing about it.

Again, once and for all:

STOP TALKING ABOUT MY GENDER.

NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT YOUR GENDER. ARE WE CLEAR ON THIS YET? NO ONE CARES WHAT GENDER YOU ARE ON THIS FORUM.

… Also want to add you did not ask them to stop. You approached it with the mind set that they offended you.

[Thereza-netherwind]

@Kaiba-garona

NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT YOUR GENDER. ARE WE CLEAR ON THIS YET? NO ONE CARES WHAT GENDER YOU ARE ON THIS FORUM

Stop talking about it them. Drop the off-topic of this thread. Stop posting about it.
My word is final on this.

Respect my request. It is my right. I didn’t make this thread to talk about my gender.

[Phialara-hyjal]

Really think I hit the nail on the head re: betting money on Liquid. This thread took a turn at that post.

[anon94774342]

No they are trolling I blame myself for falling for this but here.

Well... That was faster than expected

Yeah, the lawsuit is dealt within the justice system, not in the basement of social justice warriors or the in-game walk-outs.

[Baridorielor-malfurion (Baridorielor)]

@Thereza-netherwind

I didn’t make this thread to talk about my gender.

Then why did you pick on Phialara’s part of comment if you’re not going to talk about it?..

@Thereza-netherwind

@Phialara-hyjal

The only thing I figure is that he/she

I would appreciate if you didn’t come with your cisgender assumptions about me. That is uncalled for and very disrespectful.

[Phialara-hyjal]

Well well well, isn’t that interesting.

[Kaiba-garona (Kaiba)]

@Thereza-netherwind

Stop talking about it them. Drop the off-topic of this thread. Stop posting about it.
My word is final on this.

Respect my request. It is my right. I didn’t make this thread to talk about my gender.

We have stopped. We dont care. What we care about is how you approach stuff, don’t pick a comment from someone and claim they are offending you. No one cares what gender you are. so STOP pushing it yourself.

[Zeraveth-earthen-ring]

Just a little bit.

[Thereza-netherwind]

@anon94774342

No they are trolling I blame myself for falling for this but here.

20 years of wisdom keep attacking me with off-topics on this thread trying to discredit me.

I guess I was right.

@Baridorielor-malfurion

Then why did you pick on Phialara’s part of comment if you’re not going to talk about it?..

To simply put to not talk about me in that manner.

Then you and your whole brigade came and continue talking about it.

And you keep talking about it, even though I asked you like 5 times already to drop and stop talking about my gender.

[Kaiba-garona (Kaiba)]

@Thereza-netherwind

To simply put to not talk about me in that manner.

Then you and your whole brigade came and continue talking about it.

And you keep talking about it, even though I asked you like 5 times already to drop and stop talking about my gender.

I don’t know what brigade your talking about here. But clearly this whole gender thing is still in your head rent free. Im convinced your using it as a scapegoat to derail the general topic of Mental Health

[Baridorielor-malfurion (Baridorielor)]

@Thereza-netherwind

To simply put to not talk about me in that manner.

But she wasn’t being disrespectful to you. Nothing in that part of the comment warrants you being hostile to her. Even if she was, it was disproportionate and she even clarified and apologized right after.

@Thereza-netherwind

Then you and your whole brigade came and continue talking about it.

Because you’re being disrespectful a benign minor part of the comment and just ignored whatever she said in that.

@Thereza-netherwind

even though I asked you like 5 times already to drop and stop talking about my gender.

Nobody is or was talking about your gender. Stop lying.

[Phialara-hyjal]

It’s because I deduced that they bet money on Liquid.