You can continue to try to insult me, but that’s not going to change reality, nor literally what constructive feedback is versus what useless toxic flaming is. 
Once again, you’re wrong, though you’re probably used to that by now.
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Toxic is what toxic does, You all know what mature dialogue is but choose to act like 3yr old thugs, plain and simple.
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It’s never that deep and people like you who turn into armchair psychologists are hilarious, have you ever thought you might actually be trash and to put your ego aside and work on bettering yourself?
Saying you don’t go outside much isn’t an insult unless you’re an actual forum resident who never leaves their house.
I said to point out the dispartiy in our knowledge of humans, you clearly only interact with them online but I talk to people daily for a living and most people aren’t that easily offended or snowflakes about banter or conversations.
Everyone has their own version of constructive feedback, again to only think your version matters show how little you go out and interact with people from different communities because it isn’t as cut and stone as you put it.
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Yes, of course. A lot of people who strive to better themselves go through ups and downs, and sometimes even feel like giving up, or feel that they may not be cut out for the path they have chosen.
However, if you look at the traits of people who generally help to elevate the performance of teams, it isn’t people who call others trash, but rather it’s people who tend to have positive mental attitudes.
There’s a fair amount of literature on this actually. If you’re interested, you should take a look.
Here’s an example:
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/277338576_Positivity_within_teamwork_Cross-level_effects_of_positivity_on_performance
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Alright, I was mainly probing to see if you had a reasoning for the disagreement other than “Because I can”.
It’s sounds to me like you’re not really looking for a productive conversation here.
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And i grew up in a house hold that messing up was part of learning. My parents aren’t younger either. They are almost 70. Yeah i would get yelled at and yeah i would learn things, but i learned insulting never helps. If i messed up, i would get punished but i would get a story with it. Mom or dad made mistakes and they explained what happened when they made mistakes.
Also in regard to your friend, if it was between you and them, ok nbd it’s you two. A 3rd person comes in you do not know what the other person has experienced. They could have experienced abuse or trauma and languages can set that off. Be kind to those around you.
If they want to trash talk to you, ok that’s fine. You don’t have an issue with it and neither do they.
Here is a video that explains proper constuctive criticism:
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Shy bringing his sociopathic brand of toxicity to another thread.
Stop making excuses for wanting to be tools. Go do it in your real lives, not here just because you can get away with it.
What’s with all these hyper aggressive young people? Did literally no one take the time to teach them how to effectively communicate?
I am but I just disagree, is that ok or does everyone have to blindly agree with you?
Those studies don’t take into account people from different financial backgrounds who have different degrees of respect for opinion.
You can’t give the same feedback to a different person if the way they were raised and influences they were surrounded by molded them that way.
Most people aren’t toxic, they just might appear that way off first glance but not giving people a chance and removing them because they don’t fit the “perfect mold” of how a person is supposed to be is incredibly toxic imo.
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Your the one who called mega servers toxic cesspools!
Yeah but you’re not willing to explain why you disagree – meaning, you’re ending the conversation at that. Therefore, it’s reasonable to suspect that you aren’t looking for a productive conversation.
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So if i was to respond back to you, “i don’t appreciate that don’t talk to me that way” and you kept going on… wouldn’t that mean i attempted to understand where you are coming from? I attempted to be patient with you and deescalate the situation?
I get it there are different folks from all walks of life etc but communation like that is picked up. Just because people treated you harshly doesn’t make it right.
Remember the golden rule.
Hey…I’m trying to troll my Saturday morning away before afternoon fun. Stop calling out blatant inconsistencies.
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don’t want to be reported for behaviour or language? Stop breaking TOS
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Least you’re honest Tiff lol 
I already explained it before, I just see things differently in terms of defining things.
Yeah I mean if someone calls you trash and then you ask them why and they keep being toxic, better to report and ignore but people don’t do that. They don’t ask why, they just skip to reporting.
People need to give each other a chance even if the things they hear isn’t what they consider “perfect speech”.
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No. “You’re trash” isn’t constructive and only barely meets the definition of feedback. Telling someone to use a different seal or switch some talents around for more dps/mitigation/healing through-put is constructive feedback. Occasionally players on the receiving end will lash out in a toxic fashion, but that’s on them at that point.
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Trolling, would be telling the op that his post is absolute garbage and that he should take that as constructive criticism beacause calling someone trash is most deffinately gonna be taken offensively, Just saying that “trash talk” has never been considered positive dialogue.
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So from what i gather is you want folks to do like i was saying and respond with a patient come back. Not everyone can do that or is able to. It may be perceived by you incorrectly as well.
There are a lot of what ifs and that’s honestly just part of communications in general.
I wouldnt call someone trash from the start out of respect. There is another person on the other side after all. A kind whisper starting off then going from there will bypass this entire type of situation all together if you’re going to whisper someone.
Calling someone trash has only 1 use, and it isn’t good.
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Everyone talks differently, you can’t police speech like that. If you don’t like it ignore it, no reason to silence people because you were raised differently than others because that’s even more toxic than calling someone trash.
Again not everyone gets offended at the same things, this is my point not everyone will hear “You’re trash” and get mad they’ll want to figure out what’s going on.
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