The “try hard” Ralph argument is seriously beyond lame and ludicrous.
If I’m playing ultimate frisbee I know it’s not a professional sport, I know I’m playing in a league with other amateurs, and I know the only prize at the end of a match is the losing team buying beers.
That said, if someone showed up to play in clown shoes, I wouldn’t want to play with them. They could maybe catch the frisbee amazingly well. Throw it even better. But when it came to running and getting into position, they just plain suck because of a stylistic/aesthetic choice they made.
“I think I look better in clown shoes, and I can do other things in the game well. The fact that if I can’t do everything well shouldn’t matter. Some of this is my personal choice, and it’s just an amateur game anyway, tryhards.” - someone I will never play with.
Just because I’m not professional in a game that is, by many accounts, completely silly and least deserving of a competitive nature…it doesn’t mean I WANT TO LOSE AT IT OR PLAY WITH PEOPLE WHO TAKE IT LESS SERIOUSLY THAN ME.
You’re completely allowed to go play your own match with other people that want to wear clown shoes and tight dresses and tuxedos. You can still play the game, and you may even win against some “tryhard” groups from time to time.
But it doesn’t mean I have to play with you, or invite you to play with me, and, as hard as it will be for you to believe, the majority of people who play amateur and bar-league sports…they want to win and take it kinda seriously. Even though it’s not professional, there is no real glory, and there are no real prizes.
The majority of people in those leagues STILL take it seriously, and don’t want to play with people making personal, aesthetic choices that hinder their ability to play at what others consider to be their best.
Tennis shoes and gym clothes aren’t going to make you a better player. But they are going to give you your best shot at being the best you can be. And if someone says, “I could’ve spent $50 on gym clothes but I’m just going to play in my clown shoes and business clothes,” me, and many others, will not play with them. Because they couldn’t even make the smallest effort to give themselves the best shot of success they can.
Same goes for this game. The majority, despite Ralph’s trolling and troll friends here, don’t want to play with people that won’t even put in the smallest effort to play at their best in a given situation.
The issue gets enlarged, however, because for many of us — even those of us who are not bleeding edge progression raiders or gladiator PVPers — we now have to view the “bare minimum of effort to play at max efficiency,” as creating an entirely new character of the same class and possibly same spec, just to be optimal in a given area of the game.
It’s not enough that you showed up to the game. If you aren’t dressed for it and think it’s ok to play in your work clothes, I’m not going to actually allow you to play. Because you didn’t take the minimum effort to take the game we’re about to play as seriously as I do.
Even though it’s just a game. Even though it’s not professional.
You don’t take it as seriously as me, and the majority of people do (and the majority of people DO want to win and DO want others to play at least on their same level with a same level of dedication), then you’re free to play with people like yourself. No one will stop you.
But the majority of people don’t have to play with you, either.