My GF and I were harassed for being Bisexual and kicked out of our Raid group

Do you mean people telling you there is a time and place to talk about such things and you picked the wrong one and now you’re mad about that and trying to get sympathy for it?

Grats that you found one person that was duped by this thread, I guess.

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The replies to this topic and the fact that is flagged basically show how awful this community truly is.

Regardless if this story is real or fake matters not. Harassment like this happens daily in basically every game and some of you people are completely acting like children. I don’t know if the story is true or not but I do know harassment happens all the time, stop pretending like it doesn’t. I wish Blizz would ban like 90% of the remaining player base some days. God, I hate the internet lmao.

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We never said anything to start the dialogue.

They were speaking to our GF first and we responded as any BF would, and it escalated with them resorting to harassing us.

That is what took place in our video as well that we have submitted to Blizzard.

I understand people here want me to feel even worse about myself and the situation, so job accomplished :+1:

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You’re correct because there was no time or place for OP to be talking about such things in the game.

Again, they didn’t get kicked for being what they are, they got kicked for talking about it at an inappropriate time and place.

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No.

We got kicked for defending our GF from creeps that then escalated it, why are you trying so hard to be rude and demeaning to folks you’ve never once met?

It’s ok for you to not believe it, that’s fine and I could care less but this is just kinda weird to see you twisting this and trying to hurt me even more.

Please leave the thread if you no longer feel like engaging in this positively, there’s already enough hate here as it is. Thank you.

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If you read the original post what the OP said was:

  1. The raid leader called out in Discord for a voice check.
  2. When the OP’s female partner spoke a number of raid members behaved in what the OP and his partner felt was an harassing manner.
  3. Naturally the OP and his male partner then went to her defense, which is hardly unexpected. Perhaps mentioning their relationship wasn’t necessary but when you get annoyed in such situations you can sometimes get pushed to say stuff you wouldn’t normally reveal.
  4. And if the whispers and slurs happened then they are certainly inappropriate and reportable.

Its not a matter of being ‘duped’ its a matter of not automatically assuming someone is lying because they happen to say something you think is lying. Without proof, either could be right or wrong, doncha think?

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I’m not. I’m calling BS on your entire story and telling you that regardless of the situation or how it occurred, you didn’t get kicked for your relationship status.

That is just a blatant lie.

You’re trying to gain sympathy for THAT fact, and you need to stop.

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Ok we’re done here, you will be muted and reported for harassment as i’ve done nothing but tried to be reasonable with you.

There’s folks who will not believe it and that’s okay but they move on unlike you who is trying to be toxic.

I will no longer engage with you.

Good day.

Blizzard can’t do anything if it happened in Discord, the only thing that they can do is punishment for the whispers since it happened in their game

Find a guild, make sure their rules and kind of people are to your liking. Pugging is miserable especially raid pugging.

So you’re admitting it was unnecessary information and the OP is trying to gain sympathy for an event that didn’t happen the way they said it did.

Glad we had this talk.

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This is inappropriate to post on the forums.

Ciao.

EDIT: Also, thanks for proving my point.

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You need to think it through. If the OP had simply said something like: “My partner and I went into a raid and when she spoke on Discord she was harassed and when I came to her defense and revealed she was my partner, we were kicked from the raid” then would anyone have complained? Probably not. I dont personally care what sort of relationship anyone is in. I just choose to not automatically assume they are lying because they mentioned their relationship in defense of their partner.

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You see, it’s this part right here that makes me question this story. Why would you be recording a pug raid?

If you started recording after your GF was being hit on, why didn’t the three of you leave instead?

It doesn’t add up…

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Because it didn’t escalate until they started calling us out specifically on Discord, our BF had the idea to start recording the audio silently.

We didn’t capture the audio once me and him got kicked, but we did get the chat log + audio of it while we were in there and they were incredibly toxic and hostile towards us which is why we kept the recording in the first place as proof for Blizzard to hopefully take action against those players.

As a woman who has played WoW for a very, very long time, yes. Or tell people you’re deaf. :ok_hand:t2:

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And the paragraph you should have focused on…

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You sound just as bad as Amber heard continuing with this lie you’ve created and going with it. Just stop…your going to be getting a suspension soon anyhow from mods.

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See that’s pretty unfair, the lead up should be included. I find it hard to believe that you didn’t contribute.

If I get into a weird situation in Discord, I leave. I don’t stick around to record people if I get a bad vibe.

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OP’s situation is fiction but when this really does happen…the ones who stay are also wanting to create drama instead of walking away from it.

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Tbh it was in the moment and heated, and we had a back and forth which in hindsight you’re right in that we should’ve been mature to leave.

I think maybe something about seeing our Gf getting harassed triggered a protective response in us to stay and help?

Either way, you’re all right we should’ve left as well and not continued but we just didn’t feel like being disrespected and we wanted to see if maybe they would apologize or move on but they kept pushing it.