Projecting the past into the future is not an argument, just because something was like that doesn’t mean it will always be like that. The current concept of masculinity has little to do with the 18th century concept of masculinity, that’s because cultures change. And being a mag’har today may be less radical than being a mag’har 35 years ago.
If the factions’ ideologies are immutable monoliths then it wouldn’t even make sense to talk about peace in this game, since the initial idea was a war motivated mainly by ideological issues.
Stop putting yourself in the position that you’re some lore herald, you’re not. The decisions can perfectly fit into the lore, a simple dialogue involving Geya’rah when you create your mag’har warlock can simply end your argument.
All she has to say is that you dishonor what it is to be a mag’har and that you are an outcast to the true mag’har orcs. Something like that would be easily introduced into the game and would add more flavor to the decision to be a selfish individual who pursues his own desires for power.
One line of dialogue is what it would take to end all your arguments. Or she may simply treat you as an individual belonging to the mag’har which would mean that the mag’har no longer treat fel magic with animosity.
I was the first to say that being mag’har is first and foremost an ideological concept. I know very well what they are. Just see my post in another thread addressing lightforged draenei warlocks and mag’har warlocks.
And as for just being an orc, every mag’har is just an orc. He just comes from a different timeline, and didn’t drink Mannoroth’s blood. Your conception of mag’hars borders on supremacist. Why would orcs accept a race that thinks it’s better than orcs? Being that the orcs are the most important and founding race of the Horde??
There is no evidence whatsoever that the mag’har are radical as you claim, this is mere headcanon on your part contradicted throughout the lore. Why would the mag’har ally themselves with a race that drank the blood of Mannoroth? Why would they be allies, with blood elves, shal’dorei and forsakens?