LGBTQ+ Megathread & Lounge (Part 3)

I would hang out with anyone named Naughtymoom.

Lol, thanks for that even though we donā€™t really know one another. :yum: :yum: :yum:

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It must be rough. I apologise in advance if my ignorance comes across wrong, but like, I get the general idea of dysphoria, but I donā€™t think Iā€™ll ever truly understand what itā€™s like unless I were to experience it. The effects of changes in hormone levels are wild enough as is without understanding that thereā€™s a whole extra level above it.

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Thatā€™s what makes it so much fun!

Itā€™s like when I was a kid and getting stuffed in a closet with a someone I didnā€™t know after playing spin the bottle.

My niece has a mood stability issue that is not bi-polar, and she can have mood lapses or changes when she is off her meds.

All the players I met here have been wonderful. If I come into some good $$ I would fly all of us to Barbados just so we can sit a tiki bar and have a nice cold adult or non-adult drink. I would love to meet so many of you.

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Well it varies from person to person. Some folks donā€™t have it as bad. Some have it worse.

One of my fav ways to describe it was in Nimona. Its like when you gotta sneeze and it just DOESNT happen. So youā€™re just stuck there in that discomfort.

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Just knowing literally any women is eye opening when it comes to hormones, imo. Especially when it concerns medical professionals and treatment. How well your life turns out can be altered because of your access to specialists or how well they treat their patients.

I donā€™t feel itā€™s fully understood by a lot of people out there that there is no like standard level of hormones that everyone gets neatly portioned. A lot of people just have life harder because their body just doesnā€™t produce the right amounts and they get to enjoy being told to just lose weight/exercise/ā€œitā€™s all in your head, Iā€™m fine, just copy me, lolā€

I understand more than you think. I was on the keto diet and was losing a great amount of weight. Everything changed when I was diagnosed with Hypoglycemia, which is the exact opposite of diabetes, and the Keto Diet can exacerbate my symptoms. Those simple carbs are a must now, along with complex carbs and proteins. I donā€™t have a say when things go wrong or how often they do. I was once proud of what I was doing. Now I have no say. Itā€™s very disheartening.

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Seeing my reflection in a window or a mirror is uncomfortable and a distraction. Something feels off. I donā€™t like that I have to spend mental energy trying to avoid my reflection. Iā€™m slowly working on fixing things so that Iā€™m no longer uncomfortable and can spend that mental energy on better things. Itā€™s different for everyone. Thatā€™s how itā€™s affecting me.

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Sorry if I misunderstood this part, but I was referring to general ā€œother peopleā€. Itā€™s hard for me to tell sometimes what people mean :slight_smile:

Thankfully, I donā€™t have any major issues with hormones, but my partner had her thyroid fully removed and in conjunction with other issues itā€™s just a nightmare for her sometimes.

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Iā€™m just in the ā€œTake baths in the dark so I donā€™t have to see myself nakedā€ club of being Trans

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Awww, hugs then even more hugs, you are literally one of the sweetest people and Iā€™m sorry you feel/have felt that way at times. :people_hugging: :people_hugging: :people_hugging:

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I use bubble bath whenever I take a bath. Iā€™m small enough that as long as I have enough bubble bath to cover everything Iā€™ll be ok.

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Might of well retreat to this thread. That other thread is a nightmare just reading it.

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I think beyond just expressing my disappointment, Iā€™m staying out of there. My anxiety is high today, but in spite of that I actually feel good otherwise. So, yeah, good is a limited currency for me, so I donā€™t want to read a bunch of hate and end up closer to bankrupt in terms of well-being. No, anyone spreading hate: bother me tomorrow, today Iā€™ll by no sorrows.

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Iā€™ve posted a few gifā€™s, but Iā€™ve been mostly reporting and not engaging with the toxicity.

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I started out a response as I was going through that had like well-reasoned debating points with like five different people, but by the time I got to the end it was such a dumpster fire I just deleted everything and commented about what an unmitigated mess it was. My zingers werenā€™t going to make a dent in the concentrated amount of dumb in that thread.

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Gentle reminder that trans men experience this.

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True indeed and have

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