Luna and Arti are getting more comfy. But my chihuahua does not like them, so we’re having them quarantined until she warms up to them.
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grats!
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It’s scary to think its gonna get progressively hotter every year. It’s already dang hot, please no more 
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Okay. I have a very stupid question. I’m not sure what words to use for this.
Say you have a couple. One is gay. One is Bi. When talking about the Bi person. Do you still call them gay or a lesbian if they’re in technically a gay / lesbian relationship? Just feels like I’m juggling words a bit. Like I made a Owl House joke with “The power of Lesbians” but Luz is Bi. So I’m not sure whats the fastest / easiest thing to say when making silly jokes. Because I don’t wanna come off like I’m erasing bisexuality or anything. That is absolutely what I do not want to do.
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The perfect silly joke is right here: “The power of LesBIans”
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Imma steal that, ty lol
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If it’s real people, I’d just ask what they would prefer. For making a silly joke about fictional characters though, it’s probably fine!
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Ty
It was just sort of a blind spot I had for awhile. I know folks probably think I know everything about lgbt stuff because of how long I’ve been yapping about it here on the forums. But I still have snags every now and then lol.
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I’m not sure about the individual but I’ve seen relationships like that be called sapphic instead of lesbian bc of the bi individual. IDK if there’s a male equivalent though. But I think it does show some ppl would rather be seen as bi rather than only gay/lesbian. 
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Achillean is the male version of that. But I haven’t really heard folks use it compared to Sapphic.
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Just popping in to say hi! Tonight is apparently pain night. Foot and back are causing me a lot of pain.
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Ah, that’s not fun pain. I’m sorry to read that
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Yeah it is not fun. Living with Chronic pain sucks.
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I hear that
( got interstitial cystitis, hate it )
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Ooof. One of my friends on Discord has a similar problem. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. 
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Freaking blows because I got to enjoy booze for just a few months before it started showing up. So I had to stop.
Doesn’t help that I was just 21. 34 now. Life kinda just. Stopped. For me. But that’s just a whole other talk and I’m already in a downer mood.
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Trust me…I get it.
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I identify as pan, it is easier to just say gay sometimes depending on the audience.
However as someone who dislikes bi/pan erasure, I’d likely ask. NOT saying you are doing that though.
I know people who default to “oh you’re dating the opposite sex, you weren’t Bi, just confused.” or the opposite “See, we knew you were gay!”
Purple states still have a lot of red thinking in them sadly.
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Yeah trust me I am not one of those “oh you’re confused” folks.
I just don’t know a lot of bi people so I wasn’t sure.
Ain’t trying to be like some stupid The Boys fans who are all “reee they turned Frenchie gay!” when he’s been Bi this whole time. I just wasn’t sure about certain terminology and I didn’t wanna upset folks by accident when I’m just trying to be silly.
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We refer to bisexuals locally as daywalkers and it’s been a hit at the gay bar. I figure most jokes are pretty fine as long as they aren’t punching down IMO.
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