My dream is to play in a full 50/50 pvp realm.
Then your challenge lies in most players avoiding those realms. Most players have always gravitated toward servers where their factions held comfortable majorities.
Except it didnât solve anything that you described. lol
Yes it did? I not press the âoffâ button no matter what server I pick.
No, it really didnât. People still do the same things they always didâ just with less people and more imbalance.
What? I literally cannot be ganked.
Before it was open season.
Thats where pve servers come in handy.
Grats? 
The superbloom goes off every hour on the hour, so there isnât any reason you canât switch it off and then come back to follow the narcoleptic tree around.
This was one of the things Emerald Dream server was known for. Guilds would faction change to keep the 50/50 balance as close as possible.
I wish i played that time =(. Something like that seems impossible nowadays