I’m 20 and feel the same way. This forum is uber toxic. You will regret this thread probably. I don’t recommend posting here for long. I started posting at 16. Check my join date.
Discords are hit and miss. Some folks are older and some are younger. Most folks I find are 25 to 35.
You find a few older than that.
As someone that was 18 at one point, trust me when I say that the old jokes and how you feel will pass with time as you see more people and talk to more people.
There was old farts playing this game when I started. The 35 year olds that started the game way back when are now 50+ and the 18 year olds that started way back when are now 30+
The game is 17 years old I think so there’s going to be a lot of folks that have been playing for quite some time.
Just be you and if you don’t get a joke, just say so. Don’t fret.
It’s not a problem with the game or OP either though. The game’s casual raiding scene is taken up by people much older than us; that’s not a problem but I know what OP means.
It’s weird being 20 in a raid with people 3 decades older than you; there isn’t much to relate about.
Really? I’ve found as I’ve gotten older its a lot harder to make and keep friends in the game. I used to have a million friends now I only talk to maybe 5 or 6 people. I used to be on voice all the time too, now I don’t really use discord, maybe a few times a year.
The older I get the more I realize how much I really cant stand the people I used to hang out with 20 years, ago, lmao. They still want to be in my time zone but I care barely take being in the same room with them for more than 20 minutes.
finally understanding why my grandfather bought a single wide and moved so far out into the wilderness lol
Yeah, I’m 20 myself and roughly the same experience. Hell, was even at a guild’s discord once that they sent Good Morning stickers and gifs to each other.
People who are over sensitive might but then they tend to look for reasons to be offended by others anyways. Don’t worry about them, form a guild of younger players so you don’t feel awkward while enjoying the game.