No, no I’m not. This is really simple: If people want only perfect tanks, I want them to say so beforehand. Then I do not show up in their que, but they still get their perfect tank FASTER, because I filled a tank slot for a different group.
That’s why I said I don’t care if people pull for me and I will TRY to pick it up, but if it’s more than I can handle, I might die. And if they’re far away, I will try to make it, but I might end up letting them die. I’m expecting them to treat me waaaaay less well than I treat a tank, because I expect “you pull it you tank it” and apologise if I pull. And yet, this isn’t good enough for the DPS?
Okay fine. If my best isn’t good enough then it seems like letting me fill that tank spot in their group is a waste of everyone’s time. Since there are plenty of people who will be fine with it if I go a little slower, how about let the unforgiving people say they want perfection beforehand, and let me go to the other group?