I want to be invisible to the guy harassing me - This is NOT a pvp issue

It’s happened to plenty of players, whether you believe it or not.

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So if a dude goes around trade chat and LFG saying to people that I’m an Egirl who begs for money and sells bathwater, etc, even though it is 100% not true and hurts my reputation, it’s just free speech?

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Oh, that IS free speech, but that just means he won’t go to prison for saying it. He still has to deal with the consequences of saying it, which means bans, mutes, public shaming in his server or just being a weird, weird person no one likes to be around.

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I’d never deny that it’s happened to people. I just said this post sounds like a troll.

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That is denying it happened to me. if you think it’s a troll, that means you think what I’m saying is not true.

Glinda implied I didn’t believe that it’s happened to “plenty of players”. My response to her has nothing to do with whether I believe you or not.

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Why are you hiding behind a retail avatar? People may have witnessed your so called harassment. Which would add to the credibility of your claims.

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You care way to much of what a person this person thinks about you even if you feel it hurts your reputation (its the internet). This is something you can fix by just continuing to ignore. While you might feel it impacts your reputation, the examples you have given seem to be quite childish (on what they are saying, not your perception). As a bystander I would easily ignore these things and to be honest, if they get posted enough by said person, they would go on my ignore list.

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Damn… how’d you guys do it? I’d love to have a stalker too but then we’d have to figure out how he could stalk me when I’m going inside Dire Maul to farm felcloth… or when I’m raiding with my guild and all 40 spots are taken:(

It’d be nice to know there’s always someone watching me when I parse 99’s with no flask but it’s just not possible:(:frowning:

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Open a ticket and ask to speak to GM in concerns to a severe harrasment issue. Let them know this person has been long term harrasing you. They will get back to you the following day or so. I’ve had people harrasing me before, I simply confront them and tell them what’s up, they stop and I haven’t heard since.

Deadgrl is that you?

Grow a backbone and move on.

With an attitude like this i can’t imagine why anyone would dislike you…

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Yikes.

“Don’t ever let the internet know you’re a woman or post any information about your alts”

but also

“Do post on your main being harassed so we can know”

This is really bad advice.

Why can’t I be frustrated? I’ve put up with his bullying for months despite not replying to him. It got old and stale back in october and now it’s just so far beyond simple annoyance. I’m just trying to play the game and be a part of the community and some dude is bent on ruining it. I actually don’t have any ill-will towards him other than wanting him to go away and leave me alone, but it’s incredibly frustrating being the target of someone’s constant hatred.

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This is just starting to look more and more like a Gurl wanting attention and drama. Are you one of those people that’s constantly talking in trade pointing out your a Gurl over and over again?

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Even if it is, it’s not a good look for you.

I’ve never been big on optics

No, but I feel the need to respond to a bunch of dudes victim blaming to point out that their “advice” is actually kinda garbage.

  • The system blizzard has in place to deal with harassment is woefully inadequate
  • I shouldn’t have to pay money and flee the community i have helped build on my server for something that’s not my fault
  • I shouldn’t have to hide every aspect of my identity so no one ever knows I’m a girl or knows who any of my alts are
  • I don’t need to have “done anything” to have pissed him off. I didn’t. I have tried to stay away from him for months now.

This is all just victim-blaming garbage.

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There is no free speech rights on an online service, it’s a private forum that they can censor however they like. Blizzard is just terrible about doing that.

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What are you talking about? We’re not in the same guild! I left the guild very early on because it was toxic and have not been guildies with him for over six months. He hasn’t done anything to help me, such as carries, etc.