Was it the “disillusioned and bitter” comment?
I think she was just trying to show she cared… maybe not the best use of words and not meant to hurt you?
Just some lyrics… sorry to bring up any bad memories.
Yeah, learned a little of that myself. Sorry that happened to you. But, I’m still gonna offer friendship when needed. Sometimes people need help to know they’re not alone.
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Hopefully things resolved peacefully.
I personally wouldn’t have a problem with someone venting to me privately about something they have a problem with. I’d much rather someone ask me for my btag or disc and then discuss their problem with me and/or share their unflattering sentiments to me privately instead of airing them out publicly here, which is a really big no-no for me.
I won’t discuss it. There very obviously is some negative energy there, and I don’t do negativity.
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It was more of a one sided ,nonconstructive , vile spewing. haha
Ahh… Ok. Well this is obviously an “A” and “B” issue so I will “C” my way out! 
plox here on my alt
the same kinda thing hapened to me and i totally agree its never cool when folks want to make a big spectacle so whatever happened just hope your well comrade
/salute
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I think what Lia said is coming from a place of love. I did not see anything wrong with what she said and took it as someone extending a hand to help.
I do believe in praising in public and punishing in private unless someone starts swinging out in the open then it’s on like Donkey Kong.
This is what I do not like about messaging - you cannot hear someone’s tone of voice. I believe things can go haywire sometimes bc of that.
You have a good heart and are so poetic with how you write, I think the same of Lia. I could see you and her being the best of friends 
I’m sorry this has been bittersweet for you and I hope you have a good day.
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Swarf!!! Wth? I haven’t spoke with you since last time you were on…you were being all sweet with Thallia that day… ??? Wow…ok - and I don’t talk smack about someone behind their backs. Did I say something to you? Are you sure you’re not confusing me…hell, I don’t know what’s up. Just sad you’re hurt and mad. Damn, sigh…totally, absolutely clueless
Thats a good way to look at things.
Me: "Burn me once, shame on …uh… shame on you. Burn me…uh… you cant get burned again.
You are welcome to think what you think, as is anyone else, but I am not inviting anyone to share their opinions on this with me. Any comments which do will not be well received.
I don’t do negativity.
Please stop.
Hey… I hope my question didnt rub you wrong. I didnt know it was off limits at the time. Sorry!
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You’re perfectly fine. If I inadvertently seemed offended somehow with you, I apologize, as I’m definitely not. You’re A-OK, friend. All is fine.
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Again. Please. Stop.
I was given some sage advice back in my youth when I had been dumped and was incensed and demanding answers from someone who was done with me.
It is not my right to know why or be given reasons for how someone else feels. My only recourse is to move on and and honor someones request to be left alone. Its sad and hard to swallow but that is the way of things. Demanding answers from someone is essentially invading someone else’s world. 
Actually it’s a fairy cosmology chronicles. Researched for 7 -8 years now. Using really, history, religious beliefs, ancient societies, from Sumerians to Mayans to ancient Japanese culture. The line from gods/goddesses to fairies to angels to et’s - but it’s the Fae. A war, a refugee home in the Mists, time travel, portals, little people and just normal size - adventures - chalk and something called: “fluffpuff.” lol
It’s beautiful. Pale yellows, lavenders, blush, blue, purple…and black - all my favorites
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There is a buffet that goes with it. All the hand me down stuff was given to my great grandparents in a somewhat damaged condition in need of repairs. The buffet was missing the backsplash and mirror. I had a backsplash wrapped in copper and attached so it no longer looks odd - like it did for 80 years before I had it! Kittens were little then. The plates are hand made in Denmark and were my grandmother’s.
I am fond of them…
This one likes to “help”. My table only holds the computer and mouse so no clutter. Just cat in my lap.
There is also a cat tree (and tons of other cat friendly things like an empty box!) in the room.
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Oh my goodness, your shares are absolutely delightful. I love them so much. I appreciate the smile you’ve given me. I needed it.
I love the cat pics! Your cats are really pretty. What are their names?
I don’t presently have any pets myself, but I do pester my oldest sister occasionally to text me pics of her cat, Timone. Her phone doesn’t take very good pictures, but I want to share a few that she has sent me.
https://imgur.com/a/wJD3LGc
Your furniture, and the plates and mug and candles are all very enchanting. You have quite the charming atmosphere there. 
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OMG
His little paws tucked in that way. I can’t handle the cuteness. I want to boop him on his snoot. 
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I don’t use pet names for any passwords so I can share those.
They all came from a local SPCA shelter. I adopted Callie, the tortie with white when she was 2.5 years old. I wanted a cat with a set personality as a first cat and adults have a harder time getting adopted so she came home with me. She is almost 14 now. The two grey fluffy ones are Willow and Holly. I got them as kittens to keep Callie company, mush to her initial dismay. They get along now but the littermate kittens are very bonded. They are going on 7 this year.
Thank you I love antiques and hand made things so when things all migrated here I was thrilled! Nobody else in the family wanted them! I can’t believe my luck on that.
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I am lounging on my chocolate brown couch, feet propped up on a black faux-leather footstool, my keyboard on my lap, mouse on the couch beside me with the TV monitor, computer and modem on a black covered folding table against the opposite wall and a black/brown/beige geometric-patterned area rug in between.
And yes, the table is a mess. But if I clear it off, then I will be able to see, and have to do something about, the gathered dust. Better to just let the stacks of bills, receipts, advertisements, ect, hide it.
Pinkie Pie!!!
Window views?!! What window views?
There is a reason the universe invented blackout blinds!
Hi!
And yes, the internet is magical.
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