That’s not it.
I felt very immersed when I played BG3 for example
Doing the classic time walking dungeons reminded me that it’s not because I got older, it’s beucase the game just isn’t what it used to be
Dungeons before used to be challenging, huge and felt mysterious and worth exploring and seeing all their secrets .
Zul Farak for example used to have a secret boss where you only can get if you have an item that you get from a very challenging zone out in the open world
Stratholm was huge and felt like an actual big city with districts and you can almost feel the stench of the dead around it and the suffering
Leveling was an adventure on its own, having to go through different dungeons as you level each getting harder
Now the game feels it has no edge .
Every dungeon is the same : 3 bosses with a linear way to get to them, everything is nice, but he game is focused on incisiveness and characters that all have good intentions and of course all of them have to represent a different minority group from the real life so that there can be “diversity “ and of course all these groups have to be presented in a positive light not as villains but as brave freedom fighters etc
In short the game is not about exploring or immersing, it’s about sending a message to every group of real life people and cookie cutter predictable content that is linear so that everyone can do with minimal effort and time investment
It is still a fun game but it doesn’t feel mysterious or dangerous anymore , there is zero suspense outside PvP
All classes have been dumbed down so that every class can bring things other classes can bring too and as a result most classes play and feel the same
I can play any healer with very minimal change of keybinds as most spells are just reskinned version of the other class spells
It just feel like a game made for the masses and to be able to include every type of person playing instead of being about exploration, feeling of being in a dangerous world and the game being more or less all about max level instead of the journey to that level