You only care because you’re on the losing side. This is what you signed up for. If relatively fair open world PvP was what you were looking for, then you should have rolled PvE, and flagged. You still get great PvP battles on Normal servers. TM vs SS happens every day on Mankrik. You’re just salty because you didn’t know what PvP with modern players and a modern meta meant. You thought you did, but you didn’t.
Indeed it does! You can just select it in your settings, turn it on, and then just never look at it again. Simple and easy. And while you will find other people flagged in the open world, I’ve never seen anyone getting a raid camped on them on my server.