the portal is not here for me have tried dropping and picking the quests back up
Check for a temporary portal in Fairbreeze village outside Silvermoon. I wonder if something else phases it out, not sure. Gameplay > Quests might have a better direction.
It doesn’t look like you completed the campaign in Haranir to open up the portal to Silvermoon. You should be on the quest: Seeds of the Rift.
There is a portal in Farbreeze Village for the Haranir Rootway that you can use to get back to Haranir until you complete the quest line to open up the portal in Silvermoon.