Hello Solinaria!
I think you and your husband would be a good fit for our guild High Latency on Trollbane server. We are currently looking for dps for our raid team and our rbg group! If you are interested check my post out about our guild here: Raid: T/Th 8:30-10:30pm EST + PvP (rbgs): Wed 8-11pm EST
We always get AoTC and our members like to help get everyone KSM (if players are willing to put in the effort!) Our pvp group primarily runs rated bgs too! We are also pretty active in Discord. Our members come from all walks of life, we have couples, players who have kids, etc in our guild so we know flexible gameplay is a must!
Feel free to message me in game! Yakella-Trollbane or on Discord : Yakusa6430