You arent wrong and the responses.
Want to play a version of wow where people are social and help each other?
Join Dreamscyth for the classic anniversary server. Other there, we chat and socialize in general, give each other buffs, and team up to do things all the time.
No one is gonna send you to google. Ssk your question (like I did recently about how to see nodes) and watch as 5-6 people give you answers.
Retail wow is basically a solo game where people use other players as a means to an end. The vast majority now just pug unless its mythic raid or mythic + 12 and up. Otherwise, people are seen as resource that either help or hinder you towards your goals.