Lemme lay a few words down for you, We get it, you’re trash at dragonriding and you can’t keep yourself flying for 30 seconds because you’re too busy afking 99% of the time.
You know what would make you better at it? Playing, paying attention and if you want to afk as you float around, get in the air and glide your way along.
As for your FOMO mentality, you act like you have no choice to do it, everything in life is a choice not to mention the cosmetics are trash anyway.
If this game is all about cosmetics to you, FF14 is your game as glam is the literal end game for that game on top of a housing system where you can show off your creative housing ideas.
Get rekt and learn to play games for what they are instead of what you want out of it.