Again, I will reiterate. You are the person demanding the game be radically changed to suit your personal views and interests. Yet you tell the people telling you to quit demanding changes and just accept the game as it is because it’s fine that the “game isn’t for them and to quit.”
The only person here with problems and concerns that spell out the game isn’t for them is you. So take your own advice and come back in Wrath when you have dual spec.
Look at it like a friend, or a relationship partner. Obviously they are not perfect, nor are you. However if you need to require the person to drastically change how they are or how they look in order to be appealing to you, it’s better that you find someone else who actually possesses what you are looking for because clearly you can’t accept them for who they are flaws and all which is kind of what you’re meant to do in those circumstances. Imagine trying to enjoy someone’s company then telling them “Yeah, I would love to be your friend but you need to lose weight, you need to dress this way, you need to have these opinions on life, also you need to be this intelligent for me to even consider it first.” Odds are they will tell you precisely what we’re telling you which is to go sit on a cactus or something more graphic that I imagine you’re not unfamiliar with being told.