Inspired by a post I made in the gender thread.
Much like Victorian England, on which the two human nations are based, Gilneas and Kul Tiras have more rigid gender roles in comparison to their Stormwind cousins. Until very recently, they were both patriarchal societies where men made the vast majority of major decisions, while women are relegated to homekeeping and raising children. Scholarly pursuits were often allowed, but that was about it for Kul Tiran Woman’s career options.
This is especially true among Kul Tiran nobility, where arranged marriages are the norm (Melly here is a runaway bride as part of her backstory). Recent events, however, have challenged this long-held view - mainly in the form of Jaina Proudmoore.
The Lord-Admiralship functions like a traditional patriarchal monarchy, with Daelin at its head and his oldest son, Derek, set to inherit the throne. With Derek’s death in the Second War, however, his younger brother Tandred was next in line for the throne. Jaina was never an option - she was sent to Dalaran to study magic, yes, but scholarly pursuits among women were permitted by the Kul Tiran nobility, and most nobles looking to court the Lord-Admiral’s daughter weren’t expecting more than a traditional house wife capable of a few magic tricks to delight her children.
Needless to say, the nobility was dumbfounded by not only Jaina’s talent with magic, but also her raw, terrifying power with it.
Then came Daelin’s death and Jaina’s subsequent banishment from Kul Tiras. This left the nobility in a bind, as the only male heir left to the title was Tandred, who was only a teenager at the time. He had only been a swabbie, and he would suddenly become the youngest Lord-Admiral the nation’s ever had. Recognizing that her son was far from ready for such responsibility, Katherine took over the throne from her husband, much to the nobility’s shock. They ruffled, but given their only other option was a mere boy, they reluctantly agreed to coronate the nation’s first woman Lord-Admiral.
Fast-forward to Battle for Azeroth, and Jaina Proudmoore is now set to be the second woman to hold the title, as Katherine names her her successor in recognition of her heroic leadership during the Siege of Boralus. Given how she had saved the fleet, few nobles dared to object (out loud, at least).
Gilneas’s journey to gender equality was much more cut and dry - when your society is afflicted with a curse that allows both genders capable of ripping their enemies to shreds with their bare hands, gender roles kinda go out the window.