I used to actually RP in WoW back in 2004 and a little bit after getting out of the Army in 2010. I’ve also RP’d in a few other MMORPGs. I don’t anymore, and the reason why is most RPers are utter garbage when it comes to it.
They get bent out of shape over just even perceived slights. And they mostly devolve into little cliques and ignore everyone else. But then will complain that their RP server is dying when their clique slowly whittles itself down.
But the worst part is since there is no consequences to actions made in Roleplay. Everyone plays these ‘perfect’ flawless characters that can never be defeated or trifled with. They Metagame, Powergame, and God Mode their way through situations, marysuing it up, with nothing to really stop them from doing so. Justifying it through their little cliques.
At the end of the day, its just a few misfits acting out questionable fantasies in a virtual safespace. Just being utterly honest about that. That in itself isn’t necessarily a bad thing. But the amount of mental abuse they give to one another through drama is crazy.
So I really don’t have the sympathy I might have had towards RP servers a while ago. And I would say to anyone looking for a decent RP experience, don’t do it in a MMORPG. Instead try a survival game where the server is hosted by players so that they aren’t bound by shareholders and business codes.
This way things such as Godmodding and metagaming are actually punishable offenses. Blizzard could NEVER do that themselves. Which makes RP in WoW a deteriorated experience.
And now we have this thread. Telling non-RPers to get off the RP servers. This is one of those percieved slights I mentioned. The majority of people who don’t RP, and do play on RP servers usually do so because its a slower paced atmosphere.
Usually RP servers have a reputation for being nicer than normal servers. This was true… on Firona Vie in Everquest back BEFORE 2003. But since then, the reputation is not deserved.
I mean you’ll see people be nice to you, when you’re new and they haven’t decided if they want you in their clique or not. But over time the newness will wear off. Over time you’ll see the drama and the nastiness that inevitably sets in.
Not all RPers do this. But its a bit more than half from what I’ve seen over the last 20 years. But it appears most and close to all do some form of metagaming for personal advancement or mary suing that just makes you roll your eyes. Even the most harmless RPers appear to do the things in RP they always warn you NOT to do.
Those of you looking for a great RP experience… I don’t recommend it in MMORPGs. I just really don’t. It doesn’t give a great platform for it. Something like Conan Exiles, maybe similar games like Rust of Ark possibly, Neverwinter Nights is a decent one from what I’ve heard from friends with RP servers that have ran for years, and even Minecraft is possible if you can get past the blocky aesthetic, though the average player age on that last one is going to be much lower, so beware if you’re doing any sort of adult themes.