Hey Krook we have a few in similar boat to yourself in Eternal Sunshine (Dads/Mums with kids etc) We focus on enjoyment of the game whilst working together for the AoTC journey, so you could say we are casual in a way (we definitely aren’t sweaty). We have a mixed array of veteran as well as new players exploring the game in a comfortable and safe environment so they can enjoy the game.
Our contact details are in our recruitment post here it also tells you a little bit about us as a whole. Hope you find your community and enjoy your gaming time